Should I even care if astrology denounces the relationship that my wife and I have?
December 22nd, 2008 | by astro |
Amo asked:
I don’t believe in astrology much anymore, or attempt not to, yet end up catching it stomping all over my life.
I don’t believe in astrology much anymore, or attempt not to, yet end up catching it stomping all over my life.
Have I just been interested in astrology so much in my past that I’m just so used to seeing what I wish to see, contrary to reality?
Am I deluded?
Should I let astrology bother me, or my relationship?
TONY
89 Responses to “Should I even care if astrology denounces the relationship that my wife and I have?”
By Mia on Dec 22, 2008 | Reply
Don’t let it bother you.
You and your wife love each other.
Astrology isn’t always right.
By oldspeak on Dec 24, 2008 | Reply
Astrology is pure b/s.
By mster on Dec 26, 2008 | Reply
let god me your man not astrology. even though sometimes i see it right but woah not all of it is true. i think god is just testing us. dont rely on stupid stars just god.
By STALKER TARA J on Dec 29, 2008 | Reply
Of course not. Be with the one you love.
All of the “astrologers” of our day are not real – they’re fakes. The real ones who actually have any powers are hard to find. Very hard to find. 95% are fakes.
Don’t let something written on the internet shape your life, honey.
By Sparrowbird on Dec 31, 2008 | Reply
Of course you shouldn’t let it bother you or your relationship. Look, don’t deny the existence of something just because it bothers you. Astrology is very complex, and I highly doubt it ‘denounces’ you and your wife’s relationship. Every relationship has negative aspects, it’s all about how mature you are in overcoming them or how connected you are to eachother in turning them into something positive by working through them together.
Astrology does not dictate your life in general anyway and no one ever said that it did. It highlights energies and forces at work in your personality and life. It does not show your experience and it does not show your soul. You also should not take other astrologers’ interpretations of placements and aspects as fact – remember, astrology is somewhat subjective by nature and requires some intuition. You need to use your own initiative in interpreting your chart or get a very good PERSONAL astrologist to read your chart/your wife’s chart.
You can believe in astrology and not pay any attention to it – because you don’t have to. Honestly, it’s not for everybody. Live your life how you want to live it. Make yourself happy, and stop stressing yourself out.
By on sabbatical-passing through on Jan 3, 2009 | Reply
Astrology can’t denounce anything. It just shows you the possibilites of a situation as they are, benevolent and challenging. It’s up to you to make the most out of what’s there. Obviously the synastry couldn’t have been that bad with your wife, or you wouldn’t have married her in the first place. Unless of course your aim was to make both yourself and her miserable, which I am assuming is not the case.
An astrological chart does not write in stone what will happen in any given situation, it only presents the possibilities. Maybe those challenging aspects will never materialize into anything more than the occasional irritation in the relationship, maybe you’ll actually use them to your benefit as a catalyst for positive change within the relationship and yourselves individually, in effect turning what could be the deal breaker in other relationships into a strengthening influence. It’s all in how you work with what you’ve got.
So no, don’t bother caring. Heck, you’re married to her now, so maybe it’s a bit late to be asking this question? *But* if there is evidence in the compared and composite charts that there is a potential for abusive or violent behaviour from one of you towards the other, then you need to be very careful to make sure that you *both* use those aspects in a positive way to ensure that the more negative expression of those energies does *not* manifest in your relationship. Because there’s always a choice as to how you express the energies whose potentials are presented in the chart. Choose well, and you have nothing to worry about:) Also to be remembered is that not every aspect is going to be expressed simultaneously. Unfortunately what seems like a good thing at present may end up not being what you need at all somewhere down the line. It’s just the way life works here.
Regardless, astrology shouldn’t be used as a matchmaking tool. So if you’re both happy now, then that’s really all that matters, because ultimately now is all you’ve got, and it’s up to you to make it what you want it to be. If it turns to crap tomorrow, well at least you were happy with today, right? Further, you were drawn to her (enough to marry her) for some purpose, so really it’s probably more advisable to allow the relationship to run it’s course, and grow and develop and see where it takes you. I don’t think that astrology is intended to keep us away from people and experiences, it just sort of lets us see a little clearer what the inner dynamics of those experiences and relationships are or may be at some point further down the line.
By Carol on Jan 3, 2009 | Reply
I have been struggling with that question since i was 12…
It terrifies me, and sometimes I feel like a bad person because I know these things. I really **** it, but I’ve been learning about this for so long, it’s become second nature to me.
I actually had something or a breakdown/breakTHROUGH about 2 and a half years ago…I completely denounced astrology, and all of my beliefs, I threw away my entire life, from top to bottom…changed the state I was located in, left my friends, left my job, I left everything.
And do you know what? All the old stuff came back to me, all snuggly and warm and inviting.
Astrology, tarot, clairoyanvcy..these can be a very, very intense subjects if a person isn’t mature enough to handle them. A person is, who they is? I guess. When something gets it’s roots in you, it’s just there.
I just focus all of my energy on the human side, that’s always there, and put a huge focus on morality. At the end of the day I’m human, your human, everyone is, and that goes beyond the bounds of any ‘planet’…
I can only be me, and no one is denouncing your relationship with your wife…if they are, f**k them.
By Arch on Jan 6, 2009 | Reply
HELL NO!
You should not even think like that! period! Astrology should not tell you what to do.
Astrology denoucing your relationships??? oh please!
Just NO.
By Ciara J on Jan 10, 2009 | Reply
don’t let the relationship btw u and her tear apart on the sole basis of astrology
if its troubling u, just force the entire subject past ur head
me and my father have troubling astro aspects online, which don’t make sense to me; because we have the tightest relationship everr, we are more damn close then most friend’s i see , with their fathers
does that make u feel better XD?
By Mari on Jan 12, 2009 | Reply
I do not see how a relationship can be condemned through astrology. Did you use synestry/midpoint? In my experience neither works.
By humming scallion on Jan 15, 2009 | Reply
Of course, no (!).
It seems that you are just returning back to your comfort zone, your habit of believing so much in Astrology that is. Nothing wrong with that but do think whether this old habit of yours is suitable to control/ dictate your present situation? Are you going to use Astrology as an excuse/reason, that things do not work out between you and your wife?
It’s something like someone buying an expensive professional camera and thinking, when he takes pictures with it, it would have produce beautiful pictures automatically like any other pros. But no, it didnt, and so he thought the camera had problems. So, the bad pictures, was the camera’s fault……When in fact, he, as the user, he had very limited set of skills and it is was he saw through the lens that gave him the picture he thought he saw was going to be beautiful and all, but it didnt give him the beautiful picture he aimed for. Was he delusional?
I’m not saying you are him, but that story is something like this. Your usage of knowledge at hand of Astrology and the way you are viewing your life by it, is leading to destructiveness and negativity on yourself (and your wife), maybe you should just start to make a stop somewhere now, since you do realize this and you could possibly use your other remaining knowledge of Astrology for something else, more constructive and beneficial.
Another aspect, I would wonder myself, if being in your situation “I don’t believe in astrology much anymore, or attempt not to, yet end up catching it stomping all over my life” is……… ‘What am I holding on now, if it isnt really Astrology? What was I believing then, before, I got into Astrology?’. In believing that one thing leads to another, the reflection matters.
Good luck and hope that you do make the best decisions for yourself and your wife, ultimately the relation-ship.
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